On January 10, 2006, we announced that MabryOnline was going interactive. We now have students posting to their teachers' blogs as scribes or note-takers. I can't tell you how excited these students have been to take on this unprecedented responsibility. They are doing an excellent job!
And we are slowly beginning the Mabry Global Learning Collaborative. In fact, Mrs. Abrams' Virtual Language Arts class started yesterday with about 15 participants. I know it's hard to believe students wanted homework that night, but each student was just that eager to get started posting their work online. They are off to an enthusiastic start. They are eager to see how people from around the world reflect on their work. Mrs. Abrams has already lined up adults, authors, and educators from all over the US to follow and respond to the students work. Extended family members around the world will also be able to begin participating in their student's school work. The Global Learning Collaborative has such unprecedented possibility!
So, naturally, I thought I could explore making "From the Desk of Dr. Tyson" interactive as well. From time to time I will post reflective information that I think can be a seed for deeper thinking, a way for our broader community of parents, educators and learners to share a collective wisdom that is greater than I or you, one of our readers, can create alone. So, from time to time, I will open a post to accept comments from you, our readers.
To be honest, I have no idea how well this will work. All posts come to me for approval before being published to our site. Naturally I welcome comments that are positive, empowering, insightful, and focused on the topic presented. With all of the divisiveness in our world today, I am eager to embrace some kindness and wisdom that will serve to enable us all to be just a little bit better than we were. I want us all to be able to influence the space around us (virtual, emotional, or real physical space) in positive and supportive ways.
How do you participate?
If the post is open for comments, you will see a link near my name. The link will read "Comments (#)" where "#" represents the number of comments at that time. If you wish to read the comments or add a comment, simply click on the link and follow the directions that appear. I reserve approval rights and will pass on or edit any comments that have any contact information, links, or information inconsistent with the focus I have described above.
We will explore this possibility to see if it can help us soar even higher.
posted on: January 25, 2006
An author was speaking with an interviewer on the radio this morning as I drove in to school. The quotation she made from her book made me stop and think--which is almost always a good thing. I invite you to stop and think about the quotation as well.
Perhaps you want to share your reflections as comments to this post. What does the quotation mean to you as a student, a child, an adult? You might give us some example, offer clarification, or in some other way shed more light on how this quotation could help us all be better parents, educators, students, and people in general.
"Caring and criticizing are bought with the same coins."
posted on: January 25, 2006
Yes they are bought with the same coins, however I think caring can be more valuable unless the criticism is positive!
(Enjoyed browsing your blog...my children went to Mabry and I was your bookkeeper and field technician at one time...now residing in Florida.)
Hope your students and teachers continue to benefit from blogging!
Posted by: Mary Jo at January 25, 2006 9:07 PM
Upon first evaluateing this expression I think to myself I must first understand it piece by piece. I assume that the coins are refering to what you say effect on others. So giveing care and critcizm is of equal cost to you. So in the end I personaly would disagree, as some people may not very much feel comfortable giveing criticizm and may be more accustomed to not voiceing such thoughts and oppinions but still will show that they care about whatever it is which evaluation is possible.
Posted by: Anonymous at January 29, 2006 10:10 PM
Caring and criticizing are not bought with the same coins. Criticism is cheaper because the one doing the criticizing does not offer constructive or directive advice. Criticism is worthless.
Caring is more expensive and more valuable requiring one to become more involved with understanding the needs and perspectives of others. Caring is an ongoing process that is priceless.
Posted by: Kabari at January 30, 2006 4:45 PM
As a mother and teacher I can see the authors' point of view. I think we must remember that constructive criticism is easier to receive, and is best given with love and in small doses.
Posted by: Barbara at January 31, 2006 4:57 PM
Excellent points made regarding disparity in investment and worth between the two. Have also seen this expression worded slightly different used specifically to advise use of caution, reflection, and love before speaking.
"Caring and criticizing are bought with the same verbal currency"
Posted by: Richard at February 1, 2006 1:43 PM
I understand that quote. Caring can be confused with critizim (as I saw on Good Morning america this morning.), mainly when someone comments on something another worked so hard on.
Posted by: Barb at February 2, 2006 6:28 PM
Wow, this is quite a powerful phrase. I will keep it in mind!
Posted by: vla001 at February 8, 2006 12:38 PM
Constructive criticism is always good when used as a method of caring, such as "honey, the shirt you picked out doesn't look very good with those pants" or "your hair is getting very long and doesn't look good in your eyes." This all means I care about you very much and want to help you with your appearance (or whatever the criticism entails).
Posted by: Mom of 6th Grader at February 13, 2006 9:54 AM
If you don't care, you won't constructively criticize; if you don't constructively criticize, you probably don't really care. It's the same currency, but the question is how well that currency is used. Caring is the asset, criticism is the debit; the trick with any criticism is to come out with a positive balance.
Posted by: Sylvia at February 22, 2006 12:10 AM
It's interesting that most of the responses to the quote interpret the word, "criticism", as having a negative connotation.
In what areas of Society does criticism not play a vital role? Thank Goodness for Restaurant Critics and Movie Critics! What would I have achieved if my Parents and my Teachers hadn't taught me to look for areas of needed improvement within myself?
Understanding "criticism" is to recognize that X can be better: X can improve, X can do more, X has the ability to achieve greatness.
Consider the world without criticism: X can never be better, will never improve, can't do more, and doesn't have the ability to achieve greatness. Would you want to live in such a static and hopeless state?
Whithout critical thought, would Benjamin Franklin, Henry Ford, G.W. Carver- or even the United States of America- ever been possible?
The use of the word "coins" in the quote indicate that caring and criticism are products that are for sale, meaning that an exchange of equally valued items is made. "Caring and criticism" are what the consumer needs or desires.
"You gotta give something to get something."
"Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained"
"You get out what you put in."
Making the decisions to GIVE your time, your thoughts, and your diligence to the completion of a task are the ideas that PRODUCE a heartfelt desire for the task. When we care about something, don't we want it to be the very best?
How do we know if it's not the very best, yet?
Through critical analysis.
What, then can
Posted by: Melissa at April 27, 2006 1:35 AM